"What In The World?"...

I'm Married...That's the "Wife". Some of you may say, so what! You lucky sap! What were you thinking? Join the club pal... By most male friends, rather associates,as I should term them. Whatever? I'm an advocate of what it's all about. Togetherness... We've admitted to each other that we have attained levels we've never dreamed possible... She says I'm a way out there kind of guy, off into the "Universe". I in turn try my best to bring her along! But she says, she's better off "Down Here On The Ground"! It's the kind of thing many write poems about, others sing songs about, and wish others are "Experiencing" also. Were inside a marriage where falling in Love is repeated over & again. Love that has no measure within this life time, is the only way I can explain it... "It's a Good One". But,
The Draw Backs;
1.An unceremonious let down, of no return.
2.Insecurity
3.The capasity of "Hate" of Loving again.
Just to mention a few... However loving on this level is more than "Heavenly", and reaches a created ambiance the "Creator" Blessed apond this union. At the same time it takes "Work" and physical effort of  eminent passion, with "Sexual" endurance beyond normal exercise. In idea alone, if that's relative... Peace, is the underline aspect of any relationship with any spouse and has to be maintained/respected. I hear my wife calling me twenty times, either in the house, over the cell phone. When it gets to the level of folded arms and tapping foot... Then the ultimate question... What In The World Are You Doing? Or just, "What In The World"? I'm usually put in a state of wonderment looking to find the answer, that'll please as well as solve the ill.
In humor a friend reminded me of my status in most "Post Modern" marriages. Your wife has a career, She makes more money than you, and she is giving! "Appreciate", appreciate her... Give up the "BUM" mentallity, and do all you can to keep her "Happy"... What else can you do? The relization is, I'm thankful to G-D who created this pleasing wonder, that's the object of my whole manly nature, that pleases us completely... What do I know? I'm married, and talking to myself...